Basically, I have a sixth sense for sniffing out red flags from miles away. You text me at 3 a. Okay, fine. Like, following you on IG right away or meeting you at a bar with all their coworkers?!
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There are two types of red flags and the way you should deal with each of them is totally different. Noticing a red flag about someone you're dating is always unnerving. It makes you pause and truly evaluate this person and your relationship with them. Some people may jump to conclusions and cut things off at the first sign of trouble. But what they may not realize is that there are two types of dating red flags and they require very different levels of attention and care. There are technical red flags and personal red flags, the former of which is more likely to end in a permanent split.
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I have been in many terrible relationships that seemed so promising when we first began dating that at times I've sworn I would never date anyone again. If I'm being entirely truthful with you and myself, in some of my past relationships there were definitely certain qualities I noticed in men that seemed off. In such cases, despite my gut feeling , many people I spoke with about the behaviors I thought might be warning signs told me I should actually see them as positive signs he might be a good guy, and that what I was seeing as red flags I would one day soon see as perks. Taking that advice and believing in giving people the benefit of the doubt, I gave those men who concerned me a shot — only to soon find myself horribly burned , then blamed by those same advisers for not noticing "all of those red flags" until later. Make no mistake about it, most of those red flags I consciously chose to ignore directly contributed to the eventual and in hindsight, inevitable breakups of those relationships.
No matter how much the movies try to convince us , dating isn't smooth sailing. It's a very tricky thing to navigate, no matter how old you get. Though most things get better with age, romance isn't one of them. It ain't easy being single at 50 , whether you've remained that way by choice or recently got divorced.